Being a great gentleman is more about than just acts of chivalry. The truth about is, it’s about dealing directly with man’s greatest burden, his unfilled potential behind their mind.
If you become obsessed with being the most courteous man in the world, you’ll definitely end up in one place for lifetime.
But The reality is, all you need a war plan that’s ethical, moral and be honest. For most, accepting the truth isn’t easy for all times.
A great deal of the rules for being a gentleman in today’s times are written for the weak minded males with thinking ability every time and playing with your mind daily.
Any man of decent character already knows how to treat a single woman and the simplest rules of common courtesy for life. These choices all come to us naturally. A gentleman does not need a reminder to do the right thing; he walks tall, sure of both his words and actions. In the simple words, we can say that the great gentle man knows that how to walk, talk and how to dressed up?
While every male is born a man, being a successful gentleman is not for everyone Period, you have been creating that type of mindset in your mind daily and also remember that. You’re amazing and you will be becoming a millionaire in your family.
If you want more choices in life alongside the respect and admiration of others, explore the new rules below.
Gentleman investigates more to invest less.
1. When gentleman wants things to change, he always changes himself.
There is only one obstacle that blocks gentlemen’s path towards success: gentleman himself. He does not blame to others for his own failures, mistakes or the tough times he’s going through in life. The biggest barrier is psychological; it’s really just you!!
2. Gentleman always commits one-hundred percent.
There is no such thing as a part time to being a super successful, high performance gentleman. He doesn’t just work for long hours with the hopes but he’ll eventually see a handsome return. A gentleman always works smart by staying productive and avoiding all distractions that aren’t relevant to his path towards success.
This is about more than just browsing social media aimlessly or watching television, Netflix etc. every night. It means accepting the fact that you must cut ties with anyone to who drags you down and not require in your life or has no purpose in your life when it comes to reaching your goals for successful life.
Remember this, show me your friends and I’ll show you your future.
The truth behind is, either you’re committed or you’re not. Remember, the ones who proclaim you don’t won’t or can’t, are more than often, the ones who one is afraid you actually will.
3. Gentleman knows that the sky is the limit.
Just when you think you’re thinking big and big, it’s truthfully too small. Just when you believe you’re setting higher expectations for yourself, you’re always selling yourself too short. A gentleman must dream big, think big and be big in life.
There is an old saying that, perhaps you’ve heard of it, “shoot for the moon”. If you don’t hit the bulls-eye, you’ll at least get ninety percent. Dream big and dare to fail.
Set your goals you cannot achieve in your lifetime. The bigger the better. If you have no destination in mind, then you have only one choice that wherever you end up will be acceptable.
4. Gentleman doesn’t hesitate or wait around to take action.
Gentleman’s life is always in different session. His motto: “Just fucking do it”. A gentleman does not need anything but the simplest of plans, a road map and the encourage to move on towards his destination in life.
Gentleman firmly believes that a good plan executed today is far better than a great plan executed next week so, think today and do it today. The reality is, next week might actually be late. This includes that types of things like his physiological fear.
5. Face your fears.
What is fear? Fear is a negative part of feeling. Remove the fear in your life to follow success.
A gentleman knows the true difference between failure and success rests within how he deals with the fear. Instead of submitting to it, he uses his fear to galvanize his own actions to be a successful.
Keep Back-up plans, ripcords, fail-safes, and so forth based on fear work against any gentleman’s plans for success in his own life.
The reality is, facing your fears will indeed make your stronger always and aealing with it is the key for success.
6. Gentleman continuously becomes more disciplined.
A gentleman understood that the pain of discipline hurts far less than the pain of regret he feels within the past experience.
7. Gentleman always pays himself and his employees first.
Through all economic cycles. When it comes to sharing the wealth, a gentleman does so outwit his dream team and employees through cash, equity, options etc. that are tangible rewards for performance and loyalty because employees are everything for a company, firm, organization etc.
Also understand that no man is paid for what he knows, but rather what he can do! Or put it simply, can get others to do in life for you.
8. Gentleman knows there are two types of bank accounts in his life.
Now, you are thinking about bank accounts, Nope! It’s Emotional account and another one is Financial account. Keep balance between both.
9. Gentleman knows all business deals How to start and end with people?
The interaction of bone and sinew, heart and mind, emotion and soul, you should balance to everything.
10. Gentleman take a risk and live a full life.
Gentleman takes risks and lives a full life instead of dying with regret for past experience. But the truth is, the only things in life you’ll ever regret are the risks and advantages you didn’t take in daily life.
Get out of your comfort zone and try different things, being a new version of you!
Men with low self-confidence protect themselves by not taking risks. Gentlemen who have a high self-confidence to acquire the power of confidence to take chances.
11. Gentleman is always honest, ethical, Simple, etc.
12. The gentleman always stays in good shape.
A gentleman doesn’t get fit because he wants to increase his chances at attracting a good partner. He gets fit on his own terms and conditions because he wants to live longer and fulfill all the expectations of his partner. Gentleman’s forces himself to go the gym on off days via exercise with healthy diet.
13. Gentleman Inspire and encourage everyone.
A gentleman doesn’t use his background as a mark for what he wants his kids to do. Instead he lets his kids follow their own passions and try to being a gentleman like him.
For his own parents, he has a good appreciation for what they have sacrificed in past life to raise him. Remember, your parents always being cool before you were born.
Shined shoes, folded pocket squares, tailored suits and so forth. A gentleman invests in his fashion to invest in himself for being a great personality. How he presents himself to the world is a direct reflection of how he feels about himself and what he doing in his life. He always looks the part. He knows everything from how to walk, talk and dressed up.
While traveling in Paris, once my friend had mentioned that it took him twenty years to master his own sense of style. The point that, what may be popular in present won’t always work for you style; or look good for that matter.
Of course a good hygiene, Perfumes and good grooming habits go hand in hand with being a gentleman too.
15. Gentleman always keeps improving.
A gentleman always watches and takes action of his peaks and troughs. He knows his plan is working when his lows are higher than before.
16. Gentleman doesn’t make excuses and arguments.
A gentleman knows excuses for the untalented and unambitious people.
17. Gentleman is gracious in manner.
Gentleman be Humble always and thankful to everything that is given.
18. Gentleman is always being on time.
A gentleman always respects the time of himself and others.
19. Gentleman respects both men and women.
Gentleman always believes in proper manners, but also understands how to nurture of sa relationship. A gentleman knows how the balance of treating others will be an important factor later on in his own life and others.
He takes times to become friendly atmospheres with everyone he meets. A gentleman understands the power of introductions and its benefit’s on making others gravitate towards him.
During times of rejection he does not get frustrated and over act. Like all things in life, he knows all people, situations and things that change.
20. Gentleman always take risk in his life.
Being a gentleman that you will keep in your mind that risk is everything. Take risk and achieves more.